It hurts when people forget all the good things that you’ve done for them without expecting anything in return. When they forget the efforts and time you have spent on them just so that they can have a nice life too. It is so wrong to measure everything with money. There are things that people do out of love, out of caring.
Is it a sin to be nice to others? At least I, personally, hope not and I know there are many that might agree with me. It is because of few nice people there is still hope for love. But sadly, there are those that are so selfish which makes me wonder why, in the first place, God had to create them! I know it’s too extreme to even think of such a thing. But sometimes you just can’t help.
…and like I always say, life goes on.
I know right!!
Like its so painful and so heartbreaking when you are constantly there for someone and though you don’t expect anything in return.. somewhere deep down you want to know if they too will have your back when you need it..
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You said it! Exactly my point. You can’t keep love to yourself. It has to be shared!
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Oh if only everything we receive is honest.. i’m darn sure everything we give will be love at its best!
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I agree with you. That would be such a beautiful gift to the world.
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The best way not to get our hearts broken is to pretend we don’t have one.
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That’s easier said than done.
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That is so sad. To do that we would have to behave as if we didn’t care, we would have to withold love, we would have to close ourselves off from meaningful connections. I’ve been hurt very deeply over a long period of time but I don’t regard behaving as if we don’t have a heart to be the solution. I would prefer to guard my heart and stay hopeful.
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Beautiful! It’s because of people like you there is still hope for love. I know how bad it feels to be on the receiving end and I agree with you. Thank you very much for your comment. God bless.
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Sometimes people can truly be thankless (sigh) but hopefully, we can still be thank-full !! God is good, we are blessed.
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At least few of us hope so 🙂
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God’s love is the most pure and the most enduring. He will never stop loving us.
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Amen to that!
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Amen. God bless you.
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Great work! Makes you think. At one point in your life you stop caring …if you give, you give. That’s how it works, you are either comfortable with it or you’re not. Depends on the amount of passion you have for people and more so, how much pain you can take. But that is life.
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That’s so true. I completely agree with you.
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True to the core. But not all are selfish around. The world is full of good people and if you can’t see one then you can be one😃 which reminds me of my blog LIFE GOES ON
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Being the ‘one’ here comes with a load of responsibilities. Sometimes it’s too heavy to carry; Yes, not all are selfish. Agreed on that.
Hmm I will have to check your post then. Anyway, life goes on…
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We are beings of love, meant to love each other, and ourselves. I understand the feeling that you have given someone so much, without expectation, and yet it is nice to get some form of recognition. The truth is that to truly love unconditionally, you must expect nothing in return.
However, there are different ways to be loving. You can give much of your time, your energy and your money to someone because you love them. Though this may morph into enabling them or allowing yourself to be used. These are the times it may help to take a step back and re-assess if you are forgetting to also love yourself.
Pulling back, being honest that you are resentful and perhaps instead, just choosing to send them love through thoughts or prayers rather than actions may be the best thing to do. Some people are best loved from ‘afar’ until some personal growth occurs, either for you or for them.
This is a tough lesson to learn, but one I think we all come across somewhere in our lifetimes.
You have much love to share. Share it. Just remember that it can be done as easily as sending love out to the world with every breath you take. It can be as simple as that. And it works!
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I agree with you 100%. It is just as you said. Honestly, I have nothing to add to whatever you’ve just mentioned.Bull’s eye! Many thanks for taking time to give out your honest thought. Much appreciated. Peace and love. God bless!
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Your reply is really helpful. Thank you!
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Absolutely!
It’s like giving a medecicine to a dead…
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🙂 creative way of saying it!
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Thank you!
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you’re always welcome 🙂
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